Three Simple Words

so anyways i was thinking the other day.why do we say i love you to people we really dont? i mean yeah we all come to love some one if we get to know them.....and i mean we all end up loving friends and stuff and we have a certain love for people we date as far as friends go...but why do we tell people we love them like THAT when the way we truly love them is as a friend? i mean im not saying you cant come to love them like THAT but why do we say it prematurely? why cant we find other ways to show how much we like that person? why do we have to autimatically assume that they want to ehar i love you...it makes thing more complicated then needed really.......i mean seriously why cant we just say man i really dig you or how about i really think your an amazing person....no we usually use those when we are going to break up with someone......as if the words i love you will make things all that much better when in truth it doesnt.....it plays with the emotions and feelings of people......why has this generation gotten so caught up in the words i love you.what makes them so special...why has this generation gotten so caught up in being with someone? no matter how horrible the raltionship is, how bad they are treated, or what kind of person the relationship has turned them into......why do we lose our selves in the three words that is makes us lose sight of who we are as people, why do we take things to the next level when things are fine where they ......why is it an urge to find a bf or gf, date them, move in, have your frights, and then break up in a weeks time? and this is all dependent on the word play we use in our relationship. So this is the whole point of this for me.....to be more thoughtful of my words in my future relationships...not to lead people on and to think of what will be the out come.......i love you should be something you feel you cant keep in....that its just bursting out of your pores, not something you think someone wants to hear...think before you speak